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Simple and Compound Interest

As a Pro-Domme, it’s important to be cautious regarding privacy, confidentiality, and discretion.  I have blogged about the latter two, but privacy also means different things to different people.


Even if you did not request that I never call your phone, or never text, odds are that I will not contact you those ways, unless necessary.  I do not wish to intrude on anyone’s privacy, just as I expect that if you see Me in a public place, you will give a knowing look or wink, rather than asking if I got any new whips.

Several subs recently expressed that they felt I was not interested in seeing them again, because I didn’t call to follow up with them on setting future appointments.  That was not the case at all, in these instances.

If you want to see Me again, let Me know.

Of course I prefer to see the same favorite people more frequently, and for longer sessions.  If I compliment you, it is sincere.

Again: you should contact Me.

Worship from Afar

Sometimes, people ask Me how to stay in touch, when they are snowbirds, or not local to Arizona.


It’s easy: I have a NiteFlirt line 1-800-TO-FLIRT Ext. 9990-883, and I also have several ways you can tribute when you directly call Me.  I have been a Distance Keyholder, done phone and text sessions, sent non-nude custom photos, arranged for email homework, written custom fetish stories, and orchestrated kinky scavenger hunts, just to name a few things.

Of course, distance is not the same as being in the same room as Me.  Because I do enjoy travel, I have taken sponsored trips.

If you wish to approach Me to discuss, it’s simple: send tribute to discuss, and email or call.  Double-check your contact details, as I sometimes get messages from people whose emails bounce when I reply.

Celebrate My Birthday, March 21st!

It’s almost March 21st… time for spankings and cake!
A few of you have asked about birthday presents. Gift cards and movie tickets are always appreciated. Giftrocket is a delight. It’s hard to have too much good rope, or too many stockings, or too many paddles, too much gemstone jewelry, or too many high end cosmetics… so those are safe guesses.

My Amazon Wishlists:

Want to send something via snailmail? Change the words into numerals.
Consult. Consulting
One 7 Five 3 East Broadway Road #101
Box 254
Tempe, AZ eight5282

Thanks to those of you who sent, or are sending, birthday wishes!

“When is good for You, Mistress?”

“When is good for You, Mistress?”


People wanting to schedule often say this, in an effort to be respectfully submissive.  The intention may be pure, but the result is inconvenience and wasted time.


Ask yourself this: You’re at work, and a client wants to have a meeting with you, and asks you to peruse your calendar and list all of the times you have free during the next two weeks.  Now imagine you are on-call for work 12-hour days or longer… some of you don’t have to imagine that!  Is going over everything in your schedule easier than if the client gave you a rough idea of when they’re free, like late afternoon weekdays, or their top three picks for times?


When you are ready to schedule with Me, or another Dom/me, it is best to present three or four schedule options, and then state that you are flexible except for the days or times you are not.  This will make Her or His job easier, and it shows that you are respectful.